She keeps on saying that she wants to go home, but we couldn’t cope with her at home.
She’s too unwell to go anywhere, I think that she could die at any time. I fully support your decision to keep her here in our inpatient unit. We’re going to get you all through this. She can’t go home for Christmas but maybe we could bring more of home in to this room?
Yes, we’ve put up the first of the Christmas decorations.
Please bring in more.
There’s something else that we need to talk about.
We previously had a conversation with our Oncologist about ACP (Advance Care Planning,) and we talked about resuscitation, CPR. It was a bit tense as our Oncologist felt that it would not be in her best interests. We did not agree, and wrote in the ACP that we wanted full resuscitation.
Things are different now, and we’d like to reverse the decision.
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