I don’t feel well. I’m having trouble breathing. I feel so tired, but all I do is sleep. I’m feeling too weak to walk to the toilet, I almost fell over last night.
The nurses told me that you’ve had bad pain, but that you didn’t want to take pain relief.
I need to finish sorting out my legal affairs, I don’t want to leave too much for my friend to have to deal with.
Our social worker can help you with that stuff, she can talk to your friend. What else is bothering you? You look worried.
Doctor, I think I don’t have much time left, I feel so terrible, I don’t even have energy to talk to my sisters back home. Why do I feel so bad?
You’re getting worse, it’s the cancer, your body can’t handle it anymore. I think you are dying, and you might only have days left to live.
I thought so, I just need to sort my stuff out…
Then you’d be able to let go?
Yes, I don’t think I can hold on for much longer.
I think I can make you more comfortable, putting up with pain will use up your energy even faster, and make you more tired. Can I increase your pain relief a bit? It might make you less tired.
Okay, if you think it will help.
We’re going to get you through this, and even if you fall asleep we will continue to try to make you comfortable. We’re going to get you through this. This is our social worker, she can help you with your stuff.
Thank you doctor.
Please let us know if there is anything else we can help you with. I’ll see you later.
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